Is Spiritual Life Coaching for you?

A Spiritual Coach is often called a “life coach” for spiritual people. Instead of focusing on external factors of your life, a Spiritual Coach focuses on the inner workings of your mind, body, and spirit.  A Spiritual Coach will show you how to break free of a lifetime’s worth of false beliefs and limitations so you can find love, happiness, joy, peace and live the life you deserve.



Spiritual Life Coaching is for all who seek to connect with Source, God, Higher Self, divine guidance, infinite possibilities, spiritual surrender, synchronicity and flow


Do you want to experience love in all areas of your life, to deeply know your highest self, and to fulfill the unique purpose and heart’s desire you came into this world to accomplish?


Do you want to deepen or awaken your relationship with God, Source, Spirit?


Do you want to move through your fear and love and believe in yourself?


Do you want to let go of limiting beliefs that are keeping you blocked?


Do you want to let go of low self esteem, perfectionism, people pleasing, guilt, self-judgement, depression, anxiety, shame and not feeling good enough?


Do you want to hear God more clearly and trust the small still voice of God within?


Do you want to experience deep inner peace, happiness, joy, balance and knowing you are never alone?


Is there is a calling deep within your heart to be divinely guided in everything you do?


If you have answered yes to any of the above, you have come to the right place. I can help you. My story is your story. I know what it’s like to be paralyzed with fear.

It took me 7 years to write my book Simply a Woman of Faith because I was full of FEAR and didn’t believe or trust myself. I know what it’s like to feel inadequate, not worthy and not good enough. I stayed in a marriage for over 30 years because I didn’t believe I deserved better or could take care of myself. I know what it’s like to grow up in an alcoholic home and the devastation that brings.


Consider this YOUR personal invitation to Living the Life You Deserve Process. I have discovered the 2 keys to long-term success through extensive research and over 30 years of experience of counseling and coaching others. The 2 keys are consistency and support. You must work on yourself every day and you must receive support from Spirit and others. I designed this special program to support and guide you to much higher levels of success and peace.


Living the Life You Deserve is a step by step proven process that will guide YOU through transcending the obstacles that are preventing you from being the true, authentic expression of God that you are truly meant to be. You will learn HOW to connect more deeply with God and your intuition so you can overcome limiting beliefs, heal the past and let go of burdens that are weighing you down. Through this process, you will learn to love and forgive yourself.

                       To schedule an initial appointment email:

   or call 401-862-8859


Living The Life You Deserve Process


                             Embracing YOUR Spiritual Power

When you embrace and connect to your “Spiritual Power” whether you call it God, Universe, Source, Higher Power, Soul, Spirit or Buddha through various spiritual practices, your life will change from the inside out and you will awaken to your higher purpose, find meaning in your life and deepen your faith.  Transformation happens naturally as you experience God’s unconditional love and love from within. You no longer will be a “people pleaser” and look outside for validation, self-worth and love.  When you feel “good enough” and worthy to receive more of God’s love,  you will hear the small still voice of God and trust its wisdom and guidance. You will stop trying to figure everything out with your mind and learn to live by intuition and inspiration.  As you connect with the power within, your relationship with yourself and others will deepen and improve. You are now living from a place of authenticity, strength, truth and integrity.  The more you know that you are one with God and that you are loved, the more your life unfolds in peace, ease and grace.


                   Living POWERFULLY in the Present Moment

When you are in living in the present moment, you experience more love, peace and joy. Not only are you present for yourself, but you are present to others and all that is going on around you. You have the power and ability to “stop the chaos” in your mind and eliminate the behaviors and beliefs that no longer serve you. When you learn to identify the feelings and behaviors that cause you pain, discomfort and stress, you won’t need to turn to a substance (alcohol, drugs, food) or process to cover up your pain. You won’t need to rush or stay busy to avoid your feelings.  A process may include shopping, perfectionism, cleaning, needing control, gambling, people pleasing, over-achieving, worrying and focusing on others at the expense of yourself.  When you identify and change your core limiting beliefs about yourself, God, others and life, you will live powerfully and peacefully in the present moment and your need for control diminishes.


                TRANSFORMING Trauma: Be Better not Bitter

Learning to work through childhood trauma whether it is physical, emotional or spiritual abuse can leave you feeling Better or Bitter. It’s your choice. This is true regarding other losses in your life, whether it be the loss of a loved one, a divorce, the loss of your health or the loss of job.  When you are able to accept and embrace all of your feelings (especially fear and anger) you will understand that everything happens for a reason.  You will learn to let go and let God.  The more you let go of the past and the future with all its “what ifs” the more fully you live in the present moment, and experience peace.  Letting go may mean forgiving yourself and others a little at a time. However, forgiving yourself is usually the hardest person to forgive and yet it is the most important. Forgiveness is a gift you give yourself and it is truly the bridge to inner freedom, peace and transformation. You’ll learn a proven step-by-step process how to forgive yourself and set yourself free for good.


                                         Finding YOUR VOICE

Finding your voice means being able to express what you think and feel, without worrying what anyone else thinks or feels about it. It means trusting and believing in yourself, which will work miracles in your life.  Finding your voice sets you free to be the woman you want to be and who God created you to be.  It takes courage to speak your truth.  As you find your authentic voice and value your own worth, your self esteem improves and you feel more confident and free.  You know how to go within to see what it is you want for your life.  As you learn to speak up by saying no to others, you say YES to yourself and honor what is important for you.  When you are assertive instead of being passive or aggressive, you speak your truth with honesty, while respecting yourself and the other person you are interacting with.


     Stretching YOUR SOUL and Stepping into Your Greatness

When you step into your greatness, your “inner artist” soars because you know your purpose and feel passionate about every aspect of your life. When you align your life with your true purpose, you use your creativity, imagination and your gifts to the fullest extent, and help create a magnificent world.  When you say yes to your “inner calling” and passion, you naturally follow your heart’s desires and listen to your soul. You connect with your sense of pleasure and possibility. You know your value and no longer hold yourself back when you seek to express your gifts into the world. You turn fear into faith, do what you love and have fun! You live from a place of “being”, rather than “doing” and allow miracles to find you.  As you let your light shine, you invite others to let their lights shine. You open your heart to receive all that God has intended for you. You stand tall in your own truth, live the life you deserve and love it.                 

   Some of the benefits you may receive from our work together are:

  • Improved self-esteem, self-love, self appreciation and self-confidence
  • Move beyond self-judgement into self-compassion
  • Deepen your relationship with your Higher Self, God, Spirit
  • Tap into your own sense of wisdom and intuition
  • Enhanced clarity around your desires, life purpose, values and goals
  • Better communication and conflict resolution skills
  • Skills to improve your relationships with family, friends and coworkers
  • Tools to deal better with stress, anxiety, depression and other difficult emotions
  • The ability to change old behaviors and negative thought patterns that are keeping you stuck and unfulfilled



Coaching with Pat is having an earth-angel on your team. It’s profound, nourishing in every way and also one of the best investments I’ve ever made. I have worked with many healing professionals, as well as coaches in the course of healing my physical, emotional and spiritual body. Pat is one of the absolute best. I highly endorse Pat as a Spiritual Life Coach. She has helped me in every area of my life, as a mother and business owner, to achieve my goals. Pat has helped me gain clarity in business decisions and has helped me move forward. Pat’s coaching goes beyond coaching. She has a strong spiritual connection and she will  spontaneously send me e-mails with just the message I need at a given time.”

Lisa Tener, Book Coach, Author


“I have been in spiritual direction for over 40 years and have never been as touched as I have with Pat in only two sessions. Her presence and love allow me to go to the deepest parts of myself, the places that are tender and broken and need God’s healing. Her spirit is filled with insight, depth, compassion… leaving one feeling empowered and loved. She is a woman of great wisdom and power. Your healing touch bless my body right down to my soul. Pat is an amazing woman who does tender soul holding-allowing for the truth to unfold from within. She is truly a gift from God, a major blessing in my life.

Linda Pestana, Grief counselor, Author


I highly recommend Spiritual Life Coaching with Pat Hastings. Before I started coaching, I was desperate and hopeless to the point of wanting to die. I was very unhappy, lonely, guilty and suicidal. Since I attended one of her retreats and started coaching with her, my life has changed dramatically. I now have hope & haven’t had any thoughts of harming myself. My whole outlook on life has changed and I am smiling again. I was brought up with a God of fear & now I know a God of love. Pat has taught me how to stand up for myself and not try to please everybody. I am learning how to be good to myself and love myself, which I didn’t know how to do. Pat is a special person and I am so grateful for her presence in my life.”

Jeanne Ricco, Sales


Our sessions together have changed my life in ways that I never considered possible. I am so grateful to you Pat for believing in me and helping me leave a very abusive marriage of 27 years. Your loving presence and patience helped me go within and find the courage and strength to ask for a divorce after being married for 27 years. I have never been happier and feel great about myself. I have gone from someone who could not move forward because of fear to someone who now pushes forward to new and exciting heights. I have gone back to school and have recently met the love of my life.”

Maria Andrade, Administrative


Pat is an amazing inspirational woman & I always hang up the phone at the end of the session feeling enlightened, renewed and with a new sense of self discovery and what I need to do to move forward. She has helped me through a difficult transition in my life, allowing me to gain clarity and trust in the process. She has encouraged me to deepen my daily spiritual practice and to trust God to go within for my answers. This has led me to believe in myself and to love and accept myself more. Pat has showed me how to identify and release deeply rooted thought patterns that were blocking the flow of Spirit through me. Your coaching has been life changing.”  

Nina Welsh – Elderly Care


I knew when I met Pat that God had sent her into my life… She truly radiates God’s peace and love. Pat, you will never know what you did for me the day I cried and shared my pain with you about my relationship with my son. For years, I have been beating up on myself for not being a “good enough” mother and couldn’t forgive myself. Your compassion and love freed me to love and forgive myself. It’s been empowering and my relationship with my son has improved tremendously. Through Pat’s own spiritual walk and wisdom, she has given me the tools to transform my life and reduce unnecessary stress.

Lucille May – Registered Nurse


I thoroughly enjoyed coaching with Pat. She has many tools in her toolbox that she intuitively uses when needed ie. EFT, Energy healing, Prayer. During our sessions together, Pat was present and loving as she shared her wisdom and guidance. She encouraged me to go within for my answers and to trust myself. In our first session, Pat listened intently and encouraged me to talk about everything that was troubling me. It felt really good to be heard (and not be judged) and to hear myself about what was really going on. I felt so much lighter when I left the session and encouraged to continue on my path of spiritual awakening and healing. I recommend Pat as a Spiritual Life Coach for anyone who wants to move forward and live their life’s purpose. Pat’s personal spiritual journey is powerful and inspiring and she not only “talks her talk, but walks it.” Thank you Pat.

Deborah Underwood, Therapist


To schedule an initial appointment email: or call 401-862-8859







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